How to make people like you

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How to make people like you




From 'Teach yourself confidence and social skills'


With Warmth:
Not being an energy sink by being constantly self-pitying, pessimistic,gloomy, apathetic, critical, defeatist, overly introverted. But instead developing qualities of:
*Acceptance
*Supportive Friendship
*Inclusivity
*Optimism
*Curiousity

Acceptance means you want other people to accept you for yourself, and in the same way you have to accept other people as they are.

Supportive Friendship- just a small personal example posted in book.

Inclusivity meaning not being exclusive. Ie. some things everyone is in together, so there's no need to be exclusive. (eg traffic jam)

Optimism- People who are optimistic are fun to be around.

Curiousity


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